Show '#' for unread message per buddy on the buddy status line '~' is still displayed when chat mode is enabled. But when it is disabled '#' is shown if there is an unread message from the current buddy (including groups).

[Desktop Entry]
Encoding=UTF-8
Type=Application
Name=MCabber
GenericName=Jabber IM Client
Comment=Console Jabber Client
Exec=mcabber
Terminal=true
Categories=ConsoleOnly;System;Network;InstantMessaging;Chat;